i would like to tell them the following

they will feel foreigners at the begining because they are not used to deal with the members. however,as the the time goes by, they will come into more contact with others.

so they have to be patient before judging whether the forum is good or boring

they have to give their best; they need to take part either by posting topics or posting replies

ممكن تعطينا ملخص عن حياتك اليومية؟؟